Based on 453 community votes, the most popular answer to “Do I Tell My Best Friend Her Girlfriend Kissed Me?” is “Confess everything to my best friend” — chosen by 46% of voters.
Category: relationships • Theme: Honesty vs Protecting a Friendship
I never imagined I’d be in a situation like this. My best friend and I have been practically inseparable since college, and her current relationship has made her so happy. We hang out as a group all the time, and I genuinely enjoy her girlfriend’s company. A few weeks ago, we all went out for drinks to celebrate a work milestone. My friend left early, trusting me to get her girlfriend home safely. As we were walking back, her girlfriend started opening up about feeling neglected. I tried to comfort her, but before I knew it, she kissed me. I pulled away immediately and said it wasn’t right, but the moment keeps replaying in my head. The guilt eats at me because I didn’t stop her from texting me the next day, apologizing but also confessing she’s had feelings for me. I ignored the message. Part of me wants to come clean to my best friend—I don't want secrets between us, and I worry she’ll find out anyway. But another part can’t shake the fear of destroying her happiness or our friendship if I say something. If I stay quiet, I betray both of them in a way. If I tell my friend, I risk tearing apart a relationship I know means the world to her. Trying to act like nothing happened feels dishonest but also less damaging, yet I’m not sure I can live with that. What would YOU do?
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